EXCLUSIVE: Faith, clarifies why she despises Corp Members in relationship issues

Sani: Evening Faith Sarduana Ujih, I am from Radio House, and needed your time, to talk about relationship, experiences of the past if you won’t mind!

Faith: Really?

Sani: Can you narrate your ordeal in relationship to me...?

Faith: Let me try!!!

"It was kind of interesting but painful even though he didn't meet the two girls in the same state, one in Abuja and one in the state where he had been doing his NYSC" The first he loved was the one he met while doing his national service, and the one in Abuja he met after service when he moved down to Abuja"

"He met the first lady at the pharmacy where she worked; he worked as a teacher not far from the pharmacy, and whenever he walked by, he always saw the lady in that pharmacy, and one day he decided to go in because of that lady, and he bought sudrex even though he didn't need it just to get close to the lady. Yes, "a Sudrex card."

"He couldn't muster the courage to approach the lady because her boss was conveniently close. He keeps going to buy things he doesn't need in the hopes that one day he won't see the boss and can talk to her. Sure, he feels it's inappropriate to toast a lady in front of her boss, and he's right

“Her boss's face is terrible, and you know that not all employers will accept that. But he never relinquished trying, and he was fortunate that one day he tried and the girl was alone. So he went inside the pharmacy and saw the girl taking records and she was alone, and he bought another Sudrex card with no change to give back to him, so he told the lady not to bother, and he was impressed with the way the lady communicated with him, the way the lady looked beautiful with a cute voice, and that he kind of like her with a smile on his face, and he would like them to be friends. He never gives up; he just keeps going and going, wasting money buying what he don’t need”

“Well, sometimes giving out numbers is something "I don't like doing as a lady too," that's how he tried and succeeded, the lady was even tired of seeing his face, and if giving him the GSM Number will stop him, she will, and she did. They began talking over through the phone, and he was telling the girl how he always passes the same road only to see her, and how he keeps buying things he doesn't need’

Some people don't know when to talk to a lady and when not to, and you know most ladies get angry easily, so to save yourself those annoying moments and to avoid things like that, you don't give, Just because you want to marry doesn't mean you give your GSM number to everyone who asks for it. You know, when a guy collects a girl's number, "na too see make dam talk be the next thing nah," but the lady refuses to sacrifice her time because she works from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. from Monday to Saturday, so he pleaded and never stopped. But the lady was bored of him and had no choice but to make time for him. He then gave her the address of his house.

She went to his house and they talked, laughed, and talked about how he was afraid of talking to her in front of her boss, how he cannot avoid that particular road because of her, and finally he told her he likes her. Which the girl told him she would like him to give her time to talk about it, to which he agreed, and the lady left. From there, the guy started showing love and care, as guys do, but the lady didn't respond, and he was tired of waiting for her response, so he had to ask again. He never stops calling her in the mornings, afternoons, and evenings, from Monday to Sunday. Introduce her to his friends; talk her out of buying her things, but he shows a lot of concern for her.

So dating began, and throughout the toasting charting, he never told her he is a Corp member. He only told her he works as a teacher, and she has never seen him in his NYSC uniform, so she did not even think to ask him. Taking her to the saloon and waiting until she finished making her hair paid for it; he figured out on his own that the lady loves surprises, and he keeps surprising her, which kills her the most and gives her more reasons to like him back.

The lady began to like him back, and the only friend she had at work was her colleague, and she told her how she met the guy, what the guy wanted from her, how sweet the guy is, and she likes him, friend advised her that the guy is a good guy, because not all guys will do that to a lady without having “any chemistry”, and such guys are few.

So one day he told her that he was only doing his national service here, and when she asked why he kept quiet for so long before telling her, he said it was because he was nervous and he was afraid the lady would dislike him because he would be out of town soon. The lady was disappointed because she despises lies, and she left. That isn't a problem for them because the lady is the type of lady who doesn't want a guy coming to her house looking for her, and the guy was fine with it.

"She hates Corps members and, based on her sister's experience, she has nothing good to say about them." She has already told herself that nothing in this life will compel her to date a NYSC member, but she can't help herself because she has already fallen in love with him. She was enraged at the guy, but only for a short time before he apologized for lying. She didn't tell the guy she actually hates Corps members because she believes it is pointless to tell him. He took the girl on a trip to the beach to apologize for lying to her and to show that he will go to any length to make her happy.

So when they returned a month after he invited her home and told her he was done with service and would be leaving in two weeks for Abuja, she thought he was joking. Then he moved to Abuja, and the love became even sweeter and more interesting. You know how a long-distance relationship can be, missing one another and traveling from her state to Abuja just to see him.

Then one day he told the "pharmacy girl" that he's confused, and he kept repeating it to her, not realizing that it was because he was seeing another girl in Abuja, both of whom are nice and good ladies, and he can't let anyone go, dating the two that brings the confusion.

Saying it all the time makes the pharmacy girl uncomfortable, and one good day she asks and forces words out of his mouth, and then he says to her he is “seeing another lady and he can do without both of them”, which the lady was unhappy to hear, which is one of the main reasons she hates Corps Members and doesn't have anything to do with them, "they play with people's hearts and move as if nothing ever happened" to her. Yes it becoming more interesting right?

It was his friend who advised him to forget about his first love that distance relationships are cheating that he is moving down to Abuja old things pass away and which he took he never knew things would become that complicated it was funny his friend who gave him this useless advice even though he knows this pharmacy girl as well, and he took the advice that landed him in confusion

That his friend also gave him reason that if a lady loves him, the lady will be able to show him where she lives and he will get to know her own family and the way he claims to love the pharmacy girl he will be able to make his intentions to the lady's Mom failing that there is no love so he should move on, All of this was said to the pharmacy girl but could you imagine she didn't give up? And the lady in Abuja did not give up either, as you can see in "REAL CONFUSION." After one year, they are still together, doing well without work but still jobless, and the ladies were the ones taking care of him rather than the other way around, yes the pharmacy girl and the Abuja girl fashion designer.

Sani: They are paying for his initial goodness.

You never see love anymore; if you see love, you will do anything, she tried but gave up when the guy told her he was marrying the Abuja girl, it was difficult but she understood, Hmmmm it was not easy but she overcame it. The day he tried to tell the Abuja lady to move and leave him alone, she was in the hospital and on the verge of death. And it wasn't until one month before his wedding that he told her. So you can see she was hurt, and on the other hand, she saw it coming. I mean, a guy dating two ladies will almost certainly end up with one.

Faith: So what did u say about this, What can you say, Ok  I see if you were the pharmacy lady what will you do?

Ok, so when you asked what I was doing, I told you I was watching movies and that it was a love movie, but it wasn't a love movie; it was an American war movie, "I was the pharmacy girl, and I just felt you needed to know all of these," I was the one”; there was no love movie.

Sani: Before you told me you were the "Pharmacy girl," I knew you were the one!!

Faith: I assumed, as you will understand, that I was the one.

Thank you for your time, hoping to see you next with another segment of the story, you have not mentioned about all the sleepless nights, fights and romantic affair..... Thank you once more for your time. Faith Sarduana Ujih.